Judgy

I'm sure there are people in life who are going to judge. Judgy ole people could be the popular ones looking down on you at school, your parents disapproving look that you know off by heart and even complete strangers who give you a funny look on the street, the kind of eyeing you up and down. Lets say checking you out but not in a sweet or perverted way. A way that is pure smugness and honest relief that they don't look like you. I mean sure we all have our bad hair days and a few cobwebs in our closets but flipping heck they don't have to look at us like filth. Filth? WE ARE BETTER THAN  THAT. Sorry my rant got a tad out of control. Can I just mention how great it does feel to judge though? Power and control are star factors. I think everyone needs it sometime especially with the nasty but uncool ones.
Anyway when a friend gets judgy don't back down, ignore her or retreat. But the worst 'judgy' is behin your back. When you have to hear from a loyal friend that a so called person you trust is judging you behind your back?! Hell to the no. You stand there and say "What the hell gave you the right to judge me?" Look at yourself, man!

So on a quieter note I assume these experiences are just for me...because I'm crazy. BYE.